After the Wedding Day

the wedding

For we have plenty of visitors coming from the place of my husband after our wedding day we decided to have a picnic in the beach where our house is located beside the sea, when we stay in our terrace just to unwind we can see the beautiful islands nearby our place and the wide and beautiful beaches, and when you take a look at the other side of our house we can see also the forest that is full of coconut tree and plenty of fruit trees.

That’s why our visitors love to stay and have a picnic before they go home to their corresponding places. Since it was the day after our wedding day we have plenty of foods to left so bring all our foods to the seashore have a table to put on all the foods and have some beverages to drink but of course have some liquors for those who likes to. We enjoyed the beach party for the sea is calm and the sand is white and have plenty of corals to see when you like to dive into the sea. Before the ends I have great time bonding with the new family of mine until such time they decided to go home to their respective places of origin.

Reception Time

the reception

It was a beautiful sunny day for my wedding, the reception was being held at a historic location just beside our house. Everyone was enjoying the party, the place was filled with flowers, the food was delicious, the cake was beautiful set up, the gifts are arranged at

the side of the table near the cake and so with the wine, we make a tossed for the newly wed lead by one of our sponsor, slice the care my husband feed me and me feed to him but the people were laughing for I slice a big cake and put to my husbands mouth , then we share the wine together we drink with a hands cross to each others arm it was a greet time, then we have a love birds we both hold and together fly the love birds to the sky. How contended I am for that time but the bad weather comes with a strong wind and the reception blows the food was wet and so with the visitors. But after the short rain and wind the party goes on and everybody enjoyed eating, dancing and picture taking with our hired camera man. After the reception we had a great moment with my husband.

The Wedding Day

the wedding

It was my big day, the day I dreamed of. I checked and double checked with the coordinator to make sure that everything was running smoothly. After getting the approval the everything was going great, my hairdresser are very busy doing thing in me, my make up, and all the thing that are necessary to used are already placed over my bed I was so excited watching all my things to be wear even though the make u p artist are not yet done fixing my make up and after that I wear already my wedding dress and etc. needed to wear for the ceremony, I think on that day I am most beautiful lady wearing my gown, so exciting. Then we made a picture taking with my parents, brothers and sister and so with my nearest family. And take note my sister went home just to attend only for my special day for she is working away from home or working outside the country. After everybody are prepared we went to the church and one thing more the church is ten(10) kilometers away from our house where the ceremony will be held, so we need to travel again going to the church. After few long run I see myself walking in isle going to altar. And the ceremony goes smooth and me becomes the lawful wife of my husband.

Preparations for the Wedding

wedding-invitations

After getting engage our both parents plans for what is good for the wedding. For my husband’s age is 29 and me 28 so we are in the exact age to settle down. During our preparation time it’s not easy for plenty o f things to accomplished like any other preparations for the weddings do. The most difficult part is t hat my husbands place is quite far from mine and we living in different island so it’s been a long trip to go to my place especially the relatives of my hubby are also plenty to attend the wedding ceremony and the only trip to go is by sea travel only. Imagine how far my place is. They ride a big ship plenty of friends and relatives in there and they enjoyed there trip going to our place. When they arrived already in my home town they enjoyed also for our water there is a running water very cold and very nice to swim and our house is located also nearby the seashore so when you like to swim on the sea you can but if you are afraid to be dark in completion you can choose to swim in the water. And after the long preparations everything goes smooth and the wedding goes.

When I Meet the Man of My Life

During those days when I enjoyed my life being single, I’ve meet a man who is quite handsome, respectful have a good sense of humor and in short every woman’s desire.

When I meet this guy I think my heart blows all the fears in me, I tell to my self oh Lord I think this is now the man I am waited for. After that we talk things many things about both of us telling each others individual stories in life, experiences and everything that happens in our daily life. But time is limited for us. Then after that first meeting we need to depart from each other for we have our individual ways to go. He will be going to work far and he will be going to depart on that week for the man that I’ve meet is a seaman. After that short time we’ve meet, and me also go far to find my will in life and I depart also to other country to work. We both Filipino working from other countries just to uplift our living. To make the story short only the communication ties our relation before telephone calls, cell phones, net are not used to us so what we make a communication gadgets is thru letters only and it serves to us, until such time that we had a vacation together and meet again and plans for the wedding.

Life Before Marriage

I'm single

Single life is a the most beautiful life in the whole universe being single nothing compares we can go any where we want to go and do things without any hesitations coz we are free to do what ever we want as long as you did not hurt anything. Yes life being single is enjoyable if we have money to support for our own likes. That’s why in my case I did work far from my family. I work in other country just to support my family to uplift our living. Yes, working far from my family is quite lonely, but we need to. But during those lonely times we also need to be happy and enjoy our life for being single during day off time we go to church attend our Sunday mass then have some picnics with friends then after that we attend disco. So in that simple working far from home is that I really enjoyed at the same time I am supporting my family because when time comes to settle down for my own at least everything is settled already and my parents are quite content now with their living. Until such time that I decided to settle for my own.

Our parents don’t oblige us to help them but it’s our own will to help them being a good daughter to our parents.

Reward of Children to their Parents

my dear parents

Being a lawful children to our dear parents because we are four children with the help of our parents and their never ending love we finished ours studies with all in a bachelors degree even for the sacrifices and lack of financial support but then we pursue our studies and thanks God we now having or standing with our own feet and with that all with the help of our parents. So we as their children as reward to them we finished our studies find a good job and we make or we build a beautiful house to them because before we are only living in a small nipa house( roof made of leaves) and when the rain comes our things get wet because the rain goes inside the house for the roof is not good and its already rotten and we don’t have money to change for t he roof all we need to do is put a slice cartoon in the roof where there is a hole so that the rain will not get in side the house and our things well not get wet. Its not a joke being a poor even though our parents have salary but not enough to feed us so as a reward to them a good parents to their children we build them a concrete house made cement until in the roof so they don’t need to have more maintenance when times get old.

Relationship of Parents to Children

As my observations to all the parents and their children, respect to each other is very important because with out this word respect everything is useless. Because for me my parents told me to respect always to each and every persons in the community who ever they are what ever their lives are, we must respect one another. Also to out dear parents we must respect them because that’s the only way we can give them or gave in return to them from their sacrifices because it’s not easy to become a mother to their children . I can share this idea to each and everyone here in the universe for its my personal experience from my family that respect of parents to children and vice versa is a good thing in our life to happen and we can sleep wit h snore in our pillows. And as what I see in my parents they make everything to make their children uplift for a good future just like we are sending in a good universities imagine we a re kids of our dear parents and proud to say that all of us my two brothers an one sister finished our degree as a bachelors in different fields so to our dear parents we very thankful to them because in spite of hardship and lack of money we their children pursue to finished our studies so to our children who are in doubt don’t make the money as an excused to our success. Because no parents wants to see us down.

A Mother – Daughter Relationship

mother-daughter

A relationship of a mother to daughter is very important why? Because all of the secrets of a mother to their children is what also we get if we have already a family of our own.

Just like what my mother told me before that being a girl we must know what are the works to do in the house do not rely on your maids to do the works because if you know all everything must follows. Just like when you wake up in the morning we must arrange our pillows , blankets and everything in the bed to make it clear and nice to look at before you go out and make other moves because if we are already used to it since we are still young until we become old It’s the same things we do so in that case we can also apply that method of teaching to our children especially if we have a daughter because she is the one who make a rules in the family especially in decision making inside the house. Being a good daughter now I am very thankful to my mother for all the good traits she teach me because without t he good things that my mother shared to me I am not a good daughter now and mother to my kids.

A Childhood Life

childhood life

Being a child is enjoyable and no doubt for that, anywhere we go we can go whatever we want we can do what, we want to do .As long as we have enough power to survive. During our childhood days we are very lucky for we are free what to do play things have plenty of toys and can play to our playmates anytime. And most important we are supported by our loving parents. By the way we are four children of our dear parents 2 boys and two girls. People say that we are very lucky children for our parents have both working my mom is a public school principal and she is also at the same time teaching in a grades school my father is a policeman on that time and they are doing their best just to make us survive for our daily needs even my mother is a teacher and at the same time we are having our small store buy and sell and anything my mother think what ever business she think just to survive the family because if we just wait for their salary it’s quite not enough to feed our needs so even if we are still young we need to help our dear parents just to facilitate our needs in life and people are right we are lucky children because our parents do their best to feed their children.