Backyard Gardening

relaxing my baby

n’ my garden

Women are artistic in nature and everyone knows about that. That’s why when I go out in my garden and have some coffee in there, I get a gardening tool and cultivates the soil, fixing the plants and the others need to be transferred for some re-arranging of position.

My flowers are very nice to look at and the grass are green it’s nice to walk bear footed on the green grass and the babies are playing with their ball. I checked my vegetables on the other side for I plant some. It’s a good help for our daily cooking if we have some vegetables on our garden for we can easily pick it up if want to cook especially in making soup for the kids and it is also very nutritious to them and also a fresh to eat.

I love my garden so well for in times of loneliness and doubts in life I stay in my garden and my mind get refresh watching the green leaves and the beautiful flowers that blooms everyday. Having a garden in the house is also having a second home because it is also the place where we stay and we relaxed our selves specially during early morning and late evening, for a whole day stay inside the room is not advisable it makes our minds dull and for me uneasy to move and needs a place to relaxed to and see the beauty of the world and that’s the place in my garden.

Spring Bed in My Room

my bedroom

Lying in bed is the nice thing to do a place to relax our body in times of hard work for the whole day. It was night time and time to sleep, my kids are lying in our bed and before sleeping it was their routine to play first in bed before going to sleep. My elder son called me for I am busy in my computer making a blog to be post on that day. Mommy! My son called me so I enter the room and ask why he called me, my son said mom look at our bed there is a spring at the side and it is pointed and my legs get scratch, so I pull out the cover of the bed and see spring, and I found out that it was already rotten and one spring was cut that is why the pointed one come out in corner. I get a tool in the tool box and get the screw driver to be used in fixing the bed; I turn the pointed one going to the down and c lip to the other spring so that it will not come out again for I t is very delicate to my son especially the spring has already a rust. I ask my self why the bed has already rust under it, and the answer comes also in my mind that spring get rust for the reason that sometimes the babies urinate on the bed and the acid comes into it and the acid can produce also a rust.

I did call my husband about the situation and he told me that we need to change the bed for it is very delicate to kids and maybe they get wound on that and remember it can produce tetanus and a big problem if it’s happen, my husband said. And I answered ok I’ll buy a new one as soon as I have time to go shopping.

My Pet Dog

Good morning world. I wake up early morning for I’ve heard the barking of my pet dog, I peep outside the house why my dog is barking for I can’t really sleep his noise and I’m shy with my neighbors for maybe they can’t sleep also for my dog can not stop barking even though I call already the name of my dog and let him stop barking for we can disturb our neighbors. I open the door and see what the reason why my dog keeps on barking, as a see my pet he is wet and his body is shaking so get a towel and cover his body, there was a heavy rain last night and his tie was crumpled that’s why he can’t go under his cage due to the small tie and his body wet by the heavy rain.

Dogs are very useful in our house because even we don’t have a guard to be paid monthly we have a dog that guard us every minute of the day, One afternoon when I am very busy cultivating my plants my dog suddenly ran and go outside the gate, Oh my gosh the dog go out side the gate, I get his tie and check what happen why he did go out when in fact he has a tie on his neck, I notice that it was already cut and the tie was full of rust that’s why my pet easily go out. I don’t permit my pet going outside the gate for I am afraid maybe it can bite people and it is a big problem to be faced.

I find my dog and I found him in other house playing also with a lady dog for my dog is a male and need also to have a partner with him.

my pet dog

Stop Worrying

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stop-worrying

Millions of people are beset by a secret enemy responsible for more casualties and greater suffering than almost any other scourge. The word worry can actually induce organic disease. And even when it does not, it can, by devouring our energy in unproductive ways, undermine health, render life intolerably miserable and shorten it by years.

Yet, worry against which the wonder drugs are useless is quite curable by the individual himself. Worry lies in our minds, more often than not the result of simple misdirection of our imagination. By learning to control our processes of though we can put worry in its proper place and make the world we live in cheerful instead of gloomy.

Most of the moms are very affected especially financial, so that’s what we called financial worries, on the other hand, are real enough constitute a considerable part of all human anxieties. I believe there is only one way to solve them – provided we are already using our resources to the best advantage. That is to apply ‘Simplify, simplify.’ Also self pity it is a root of our worries and we don’t need to apply all of these in our daily lives for life is too short we need to open up our minds and fell the beauty of the world and needs to enjoy life but watch out make your moves in a perfect way for we have a husband that monitor us all the time.

Confirmation with my Son

mommy and son

Talking to my son about his being one of the chosen candidate for Star Kids in their school is an easy thing to do, for I ask him if he is welling to participate but then he answered me a big yes. My son is very excited and asks me on what to do on the stage and he keep on modeling inside our house, I told him not to wave his butt for you are not a girl and we both laugh, how excited my son is. That’s why even it is hard where to find the costume still I do my best just to support my son.

On the next day I go to the principal office for the confirmation and asking all the details, what are the necessary things to prepare and the schedule of practices for them to know what to do for presentation day? When everything for me is cleared I go home with plenty of things put into my mind, on where to find the costumes and talent presentation.

I call my husband about my instant decision that I made, about joining his son to be a candidate for the search for Star Kids in their campus. My husband is happy knowing the situation that his son was chosen as a candidate when in fact plenty of students in the campus. He told me what will I do our son is handsome like me (hehehe) and we both laugh for that joke.

Choosing my Son to be a Star Kids

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come on

It’s a sunny morning after sending my kids from school I take my breakfast with bread and brewed coffee, setting on the terrace and relaxed. I’ve heard the telephone ringing. I pick up the phone and say “Hello” good morning may I know who’s on the line please? The other line answer that he is the principal in the school where my son is enrolled. Ok sir I told him what can I do for you, and the principal answered. Madam I want to ask permission from you that I will let your son Niko Andrei to join the Star Kids for our foundation day. Really! I answered it’s my great pleasure that my son is one of the chosen candidate to be a contestant in our foundation day, and I ask him also what are the things to prepare and the costume to wear and he explain to me everything. I told the principal that I am also welling to let my son join the contest just for exposure also, and he is thankful that I did cooperate also for the celebration.

Love your Neighbor

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neighbor

Using this magic word LOVE has many things to do. A lot of people happy and broken hearts to be loved again. Each and everyone of us has a neighbors and even though we meet each other sometimes due to a busy schedule still we have a time to c all or text sometimes to monitor what is happening in our p lace, for most of us in the subdivision are all mothers remain at home for our husbands are working away from their families. So we the mothers who are left at home needs to communicate with each other just to keep in touch also.

One day when I am busy doing things at home, I’ve heard somebody shouting and crying. What is that?! I ask my maid, and she told me that our neighbors baby is crying out loud and the maid spank the kid. What I did is just observed the situation. When the mother of the baby arrived, I called her on the phone and tell her what the situation is coz I pity the kid. So she asks their maids about what happen, and she told me that the kids have done wrong to the maids but still they don’t have the power or authority to spank the kids.

So very important that we need to communicate our neighbors because when we are out in the house we can monitor also our kids with the help of our neighbors, It’s very important to love our neighbors and communicate sometimes because in times of trouble or emergencies we c an call them all the time

Best friend is hard to Find

True friendship is hard to find, as what many people say it’s so easy to find a friend but it is hard to find a best friend. And I support on that sayings for I have a friend and she has a best of friend that almost every hour every minute they are together talking and sometimes go on outing. If one has a problem they consult each other to make the problem solved. One night, the three of us go on a Saturday night disco for we are also friends, and I really notice there closeness, no more no less they are only friends. We really enjoyed the night with lots of beer to drink and foods to eat and the disco lights that are tempting to dance on the dance floor, we start dancing until we fell tired and we set down in our place and drink again with a bottomless beer. We really enjoyed the night until such time we decided to leave the place and have some refreshment outside. So I drive the car slowly only for we all drunk but me not too much for I did a control in drinking for I am the one who will drive the car.

I stop the car in front of the coffee shop. Girls wake up!!! Let’s have some coffee. I told them. Oh! I’m drunk said my one friend. Ok I’ll go ahead she told me. When we’re done in the shop we decided to go home for it is already dawn and time to rest also.

Life is enjoyable but it depends on us how to handle. As a mother we need also time for our selves time for relaxation but be sure purely friends only are with us, for we have already a kids and a husband that loves us so much.

Important Tips on how to Succeed

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succeed

Mostly of the mother’s they have their money but they don’t know how to use it. This is what my observations with my friends and neighbors. They have plenty of money especially during payday because most of my friends and neighbors their husbands are working outside the country so I really know there lifestyle. Here are my tips on my tips on how to succeed and save money wisely:

1. Buy only things that are very important to use.

2. Do not put plenty of money in your wallet; you might think you still have plenty of money.

3. Buy only things what you want not what you need.

4. In going to a grocery make sure you a list of things to buy.

5. If possible do not bring kids in the grocery area for you might out of control with your grocery.

6. Neither try to pay card nor by cash for we can pick easily things that are unnecessary for in our minds can do we tell, never mind I don’t cash out. But during paying of our bills it is the time that we can realized our budget is overspending.

These are some of my simple tips that I can share based on my experiences

Bonding with the Whole Family

Since we have nothing to do in the house my husband told me that we will go to the beach to have some picnic for the kids also loves to swim in the sea. It was early morning when we talk with my partner, so I go up in the bed change clothes and drive to the market to buy some foods to eat and bring to the beach. We can easily go to the market for it is only a near place or a walking distance away from our home place. When I arrived home came from the market I cook some foods to eat and prepare the things that are needed to bring to the beach. The kids are very excited also preparing their trunks and short pants and also they bring a ball because they want to play also in the beach told my elder son. Is everybody ready? I told them. Yes mom we’re very excited to go. So my husband is very happy watching his kids very excited.

As my partner is driving going to the beach we are all singing and everybody is very happy. Ok kids we are now on the beach, Yahoo!!! The kids are shouting and run directly to the sea. While I am preparing the foods in the cottage my baby cried! Mommy! I go directly to my son and see what did happen, what is happening to you my baby? I’m worried about you. And baby laughs (hahaha) and pours me water in my head for he want me to take a bath also together with them, and we both laugh and swim together under the sea. I’m very happy and we enjoyed with the whole family.