Parenthood is Naturally Problematic
crying baby
The ultimate goals that parents have for their children are the immediate goals they have for themselves; Self-control and self sufficiency. It’s important for parents to understand that they operate to a timetable that’s different from their children’s and that each child’s ability to learn is unique.
Like my kids now it is quite a head ache if I really get serious about their attitudes being a kid, as days goes by I learned to my self that kids are really kids they do what they want to do and play if they likes to play and sometimes they get hurt with each other and both of them are crying so of course being a parent and a mother I ask them what did happen and both were having their own alibis and stories they want to be always perfect and no mistakes so what I did is that told them to forgive each other and not to do it again so that no one will cry and they will only enjoy their games to the best that they can. So both of them hug each other and say sorry for what have they done and not to do it again.
When dealing with kids temper for example, parents are not only attempting to restore calm and order to our household, we also trying to teach our kids how to handle frustrations and anger in a more appropriate way. Parents must model the kind of behavior they want to teach and must be also communicate our kids their values in ways that make the values as important for our kids as they are for themselves.