For Couples in a Relation
4th October, 2009 by babesvie
When you are in a relationship, you may run unknowingly into these situations, which would do well to unmask and to try to eliminate.
Imitation;
It might happen that you copy or passively repeat and imitate the personality, the actions and the behavior of the other person. These patterns of imitations will inevitably bring you to identify yourself outside of yourself, outside of true personality. Thus, you ought not to imitate, but to take a cure from the other so as to organize, reorganize and restructure your own ego towards a more advance stage in your own pace and with your personal psychological resources.
Here are suggestions on how not to get involve in a relation:
- Do not get involve in a relationship out of conformism, simply because else is doing it.
- Do not get into a relation out of fear of being left alone.
- Do not get into a relationship for the purpose of resolving your social problems such as economic, social and physical ones.
- Do not get into a relation because you’re of the idea being in love.
- Do not get into a relation in order to be dominated or to dominate.
- Do not get into a relation out need or out of craving for affection.
- Do not get into a relation for convenience, to be served or to serve.
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