How to become a Real Friend

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Everyone wants a friend, a friend whom we can depend on in times of sorrows and pains, a friend who understands our feelings, characteristics attitudes and behavior without any effort to destroy us but to lead us to the right path of life.

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Tips to help you turn yourself into a real friendship

1. Focus on what you can give to a friend, not what you can get out of a friendship. Friendship means give and take. Never use a friend just to satisfy your needs and leave him/her when you don’t need him/her anymore.

2. Disagreement shouldn’t destroy friendship. Having different opinion to discuss with is natural and healthy but if this thing will lead to you to get mad at one another, stops it.

3. If you see your friend making mistakes, point them out tactfully to her. Be careful in correcting your friend’s mistakes. Don’t force her to change right away. You must remember it takes a lot of patience to change your friend’s attitudes and behavior.

4. Encourage your friend. Don’t put her/him down when you learn that she is achieving something; instead encourage or inspire her to work harder and to be happy for what she has achieved.

5. Be there for both the good and bad times. If you heard that your friend got promoted to any position, you celebrate it, and if you heard that your friend has a problem, be there to support and console her. Most of the times, what a friend really needs is a sympathetic ear, someone who will understand his feelings.

6. Be willing to forgive. If someone gets a mistake, we must know how to forgive.

7. Learn to accept personal differences with your friend. We must learn to accept our friend for what she is and try to help her gradually.

8. Never try to control your friend. Learn to accept the truth that your friend has other friend aside from you.

Friends may come and go, it rewards us with growth and leaves in us a reminder of life in pain or happiness and it educates us to select the best of friends we want to.

Best friend is hard to Find

True friendship is hard to find, as what many people say it’s so easy to find a friend but it is hard to find a best friend. And I support on that sayings for I have a friend and she has a best of friend that almost every hour every minute they are together talking and sometimes go on outing. If one has a problem they consult each other to make the problem solved. One night, the three of us go on a Saturday night disco for we are also friends, and I really notice there closeness, no more no less they are only friends. We really enjoyed the night with lots of beer to drink and foods to eat and the disco lights that are tempting to dance on the dance floor, we start dancing until we fell tired and we set down in our place and drink again with a bottomless beer. We really enjoyed the night until such time we decided to leave the place and have some refreshment outside. So I drive the car slowly only for we all drunk but me not too much for I did a control in drinking for I am the one who will drive the car.

I stop the car in front of the coffee shop. Girls wake up!!! Let’s have some coffee. I told them. Oh! I’m drunk said my one friend. Ok I’ll go ahead she told me. When we’re done in the shop we decided to go home for it is already dawn and time to rest also.

Life is enjoyable but it depends on us how to handle. As a mother we need also time for our selves time for relaxation but be sure purely friends only are with us, for we have already a kids and a husband that loves us so much.